This article originally appeared on New York Post

By Lauren Tousignant,

The latest bedroom trend doesn’t have to do with a certain position or technique — and it’s not sexy at all.

The disturbing, nonconsensual trend is called “stealthing” and its rise is documented in a report by the Columbia Journal of Gender and Law.

Lead author Alexandra Brodsky argues that “stealthing,” when a man secretly removes his condom in the middle of sex, is a form of sexual assault and should be treated as such.

Even more troubling is the online community Brodsky uncovered, where men encourage other men to “stealth” their partners. These perpetrators — both gay and straight — believe it’s a man’s right to “spread one’s seed.”

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Any man who has ever worried about his performance or how long he lasts in bed has probably longed for the quick fix that would make him last as long as he always wanted. Most men would simply like to be able to have more control over when they cum, in order to be sure that their partner is just as satisfied as they are. There are many tactics and tricks, and even drugs, out there that promise results, but which of those actually work? Unfortunately, there isn’t one clear answer. What might work well for one man might not work at all for another. You might have to try a few things before you find a technique that’s useful for you. But there is one thing that is universal. Most problems with not lasting long enough and other sexual dysfunctions are at least partially psychological. This means that there are things you can do to make a difference just by changing your thought patterns. You would be surprised at how much you can control with your thoughts.

Slow sex is better! Why do you ask? Well, in one sentence: it magnifies the sexual pleasure – orgasm will be always more intense if it comes after recurrent rising and falling off your sexual arousal. But there are more benefits of it than that.

We live in a technologically advanced and fast-paced world and we go through life doing many things automatically without giving them much thought. The technology competes for our attention and that leads to problems with focusing and to anxiety. This can’t be healthy! So many of us start feeling increasingly disconnected from our partners and even from our own bodies and sexual selves.

This article originally appeared on Dashing Sumit

Gwyneth Paltrow, the head of Goop.com, recently shared everything you need to know about anal sex. In fact, she had a guide published on the site that tells you everything you need…

She is known for being very outspoken about extremely sensitive topics like sex and anatomy. She’s also been very outspoken about her support of vaginal steaming and she even recommends using a $15,000 golden sex toy in order to achieve your maximum amount of pleasure in the bedroom. You could say she is a fan of sex…

Forget that course on tax accounting – delivering mind-blowing oral sex is the one skill that everyone needs. If you’re a wizard down there, you’re going to have a much better sex life, more fulfilling relationships, and (probably) world peace. Think it’s too difficult? Think again. With these 20 simple tips – for both guys and girls – the only thing hard will be you.

1. The F-Spot

Lord knows why it’s called the F-Spot, but the strip of skin on the underside of the penis is a real thing – and real sensitive. With a bit of deft finger work (think a very dirty Mozart) while the rest of it is getting attention, the sensations will be out of control.

BY TIANA TAYLOR & SHANNON HARRIS,

WHAT COMES TO MIND when you think of California girls? High maintenance, perfect tan having, kale eating, yoga freaks? You are probably right. Here are 9 reasons you should never date a California girl.

1. You will never get the taste of kale out of your mouth.

Get used to kale smoothies, 6am yoga sessions, and organic everything. Lazy days of Netflix and chill are long gone. Say hello to a 13-mile hike followed by an afternoon bike to the local farmer’s market. No more buffalo wings and nachos on game day, get used to the idea of chips, hummus, and guacamole.

This article originally appeared on FHM

By Nick Dimengo,

Most of us would probably prefer to have sex—oral, anal or vaginal—in the comfort of a bed or on a couch, but according to a new study from the University of South Dakota, doing it in a car is still one of the top spots.

According to Style Caster that was published in The Journal Of Sex Research, psychology researchers surveyed more than 700 women and men about sex in a car, with more than half—59.5 percent of women and 61 percent of men—admitting that they have had sex in a parked car.

By Claire Reid,

Being a sport’s commentator is one of those jobs that probably sounds like a lot more fun than it actually is. As well as having to keep on top of what is happening, you have to be able to describe it in such way that people who can’t see the action feel as though they can. And, of course, they need to remain unbiased, even if they’re secretly rooting for one side.

One thing commentators probably don’t think they need to worry about is having to explain some sex noises during a match. And so, to the Sarasota Open in Florida where a match between Frances Tiafoe and Mitchell Krueger was briefly interrupted by what appeared to be a couple having sex very loudly nearby. And I do mean very loudly.

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What’s so important about sex positions? Couples are forever in search of getting the angle just right in order to maximize pleasure for both parties. Some positions might feel great for the man and not be a favorite for the woman, and vice versa. Then you might have a position or two that really work for you as a couple, but of course you want to keep things interesting, so you keep trying new positions to see if you can add another one to your repertoire. The search for the best and most pleasurable sex positions goes on and on. In an effort to always have new material, some sex columns will list off impossible sex positions that might look good on paper or in a fancy photo with good looking models, but in real life, it’s impossible to pull them off. So today I’m bringing you 6 sex positions that you can actually do with your partner. There will be no standing on your head or do back bends on this list…