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Who doesn’t want to be the best lover on the block? Well, if you want to become her sex god, you need to learn about all orgasms your lady can experience:

1. A clitoral orgasm is one of the easiest orgasms to achieve. Often, all you need to do is to stimulate her clit – the main nerve center of female reproductive organs. You can find it at the top of her outer labia and stimulate it in a wide variety of ways, using toys, fingers, friction, and vibrations! Younger women experience this very fast.

  1. The second orgasm is called vaginal. You can give it to her during regular sex or while playing with a vibrator. Powerful on its own, this can be even multiplied in its strength when paired with clitoral stimulation to create blended climax. Older women are more prone to having this kind of a climax.

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Sex is great. Everyone knows that. After a while though, you and your partner might want to change things up in order to keep it fresh and have new sexual experiences. You two might even want a challenge.

These are the most difficult sex positions ever conceived by mankind. In fact, none of these can really be recommended because most of these positions require superhero-levels of strength, and taffy-like flexibility. So, you’ve been warned. In any case, read all about, and rank, the 10 hardest sex positions of all time.

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If you are a guy who is not very well endowed, it is important that you choose your moves wisely. You want to please your woman and make sure things do not get awkward.

Often times, to enjoy sex, you have to play to your strengths. Thankfully, there are a lot of sex positions out there and you are guaranteed to find a couple that will work well for you individually and as couple.

Hands down the best position to achieve this is the Cowgirl Sex Position. Here are three reasons why.

By Ryan Anderson,

Intimacy with your partner can satisfy a range of vital psychological needs.

Everyone knows that, along with eating chocolate and drinking wine, having sex is one of the best things you can do for your health…

In all seriousness, all three of these things can have enormous benefits for both physical and psychological health. But sex in particular can benefit your physical and mental health. If you need an incentive to have sex, here are seven:

By John Alexander,

Let me mention a few names and you can tell me what they all have in common:

  • Al Pacino
  • Humphrey Bogart
  • Napoleon

Okay, no surprise here… they’re all short guys. But you know what? They were all awesome with the ladies (and not just because of their celebrity status… they were all players before they became famous.)

In fact, the reason they could attract girls was because of their strong inner attitude.

There are a couple things you can do in the short term. Wearing boots right now will subtly add 2 or 3 inches to your height.

Also, when you dress, wear vertical stripes and tight clothes. That will make you look SLENDER, which will make you appear taller.

By John Alexander,

Having a girlfriend can be a dangerous thing. We become too dependent on our woman for our happiness, and then if we get dumped, we find that we’ve all of a sudden lost our confidence. This results in being without sex for many months, until we finally get a girlfriend again, and… the cycle repeats.

So to break this cycle, we need to REMAIN the attractive guy, the alpha male.

You see, relationships can make us guys too lazy (since the sex is so easy) and we lose that “high value” mindset. It’s crucial to keep that alpha male frame of mind that says, “I am like a Lamborghini.”

Do Lamborghini dealerships grovel to try to get people to like them? Of course not. Instead they allow all the buyers to come to them. Hell, Lamborghini doesn’t even advertise. As a man, you should have a similar confident mindset if you want to maximize the attraction your girlfriend feels for you.

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Here’s a hint: it’s not on your bed.

When you think about having sex, you immediately think of a bed, don’t you? Yeah, that’s generally the norm. But guess what? That’s not the place most women want to be when they’re all over your junk. In fact, the number one place women fantasize about getting it on is nothing like a bed.

According to a survey by Sleep Cupid of 3,000 women, the most appealing place to have sex is on a flight of stairs. Why? I am not sure. Perhaps for the thrill of possibly getting caught…? Or for the adrenaline-inducing potential of falling down the stairs mid-thrust?  Who knows.

By Gigi Engle,

Nobody orgasms when they feel uncomfortable.

Being uncoordinated is quite awkward when it’s coupled with raging libido. Welcome to my world.

You’re horny, but you never really know how to execute anything with grace. You always look (or feel like you look) like a deranged duck in lingerie, trying to give a lap dance or a blow job. Nobody orgasms when they feel uncomfortable.

I’m a gal who’s first to admit she’s uncoordinated. I don’t have great balance, pretty limited hand-eye coordination, and very weak depth perception. All of these things make having sex an especially difficult task for me. 

By Carrie Weisman,

Clearly anxiety can be an obstacle to a healthy sex life and needs to be talked about.

You’re stressed so you clench. When you clench, it cramps. It’s a cycle that starts in the mind and finds its way down into the body. And I’m not talking about your jaw, I’m talking about your genitals.

Anxiety presents itself in many ways, but one of its more clandestine manifestations takes place below the belt. For men, that can lead to erectile dysfunction, an ailment we’re all familiar with thanks to late-night ads. Far fewer of us can list the effects anxiety has on the female sexual response cycle.

By Gabrielle Moore,

Welcome to your intro guide to Anal Sex Toys for Beginners.

Anal sex is not as taboo as it once was, and many of couples are interested in trying it out for the first time.  But to begin with it is often better to start slowly and playfully with fingers and toys, rather than going full on anal sex penetration.

Here’s why:

  1. First your penis may be larger than your partner can handle if she is a beginner.  I know you might think that’s a good thing, but in the case of anal play, size is something she may have to work up to as the anal sphincter is small and not used to stretching.  With sex toys, you can choose a size suitable to what she can handle.
  2. Beginners trying anal sex for the first time may be too enthusiastic and thrust too hard, too deep or too fast to begin with.  With sex toys, it is a lot easier to control the depth, force and speed of penetration.
  3. Sex toys also allow you to explore and experiment which is essential to learning this new skill.

By Ana C. Pascual,

“Getting married isn’t the only end goal.”

While everyone is getting engaged and having babies, here I am trying to be a successful and accomplished woman in my field before I reach my 30s. Not to say that those engaged  or married aren’t motivated to work hard, but since I haven’t met someone I see myself marrying, I just don’t want to put too much pressure on myself.

And though a lot of people are encouraging me to date around and find a decent man to spend the rest of my life with, getting married is not my priority right now. I have a lot of dreams I want to achieve for myself first and getting in a relationship (or looking for one) will probably slow me down.